BrazenCareerist.com

Today I found out about a site that helps professionals from "the next generation" connect with each other and share ideas, brazencareerist.com. The site offers many tools for networking and sharing, and will even import facebook information and twitter updates. One can even import their blog and add that to their profile feed. People can join groups based in different categories, including professional and interest groups, and can share ideas with other members of the group. If there's a particular person that seems interesting, keeping up on that person's updates is easy: just become their fan, and all their updates will be posted on your "fan feed". In the words of co-founder Penelope Trunk:

"Starting today, we are calling Brazen Careerist the career management tool for next-generation professionals. In the online career space where experienced professionals win, we’ve created a network that will help young professionals level the playing field. Instead of just a traditional résumé, at the core of the new Brazen Careerist profile is an idea-based feed that showcases your knowledge, opinions and thoughts. In other words: Your potential. We all know there are pools of new talent coming into the market, but no career site showcases the most critical thing that talent should be sharing: Ideas."

The website promises to be very user-centric, with the idea that what the user has to say and what the user wants to see is most important. It's all about being part of a community that can help each other reach goals, give feedback, and above all, network with others.

When you least expect it…

So, for the most part, life here in Ann Arbor has been going pretty smoothly.  I’ve made a few friends, managed to learn how to get around the city, and pretty much settled down into the routine of summer classes.

However, suddenly, my roommate tells me he’s moving to another apartment.  Since he was living here before I came, this means, of course, that suddenly, I have to get a ton of thing for the apartment, things I didn’t plan on getting initially.  Suddenly, life grabs you by your neck and says “Don’t get comfortable, we’re just getting started!”

To make things worse, one of the dashboard lights in my car lit up, and according to the manual (yes, I actually read it) it’s some sort of engine emission thing.  Now, according to Kristin, it usually means that the gas cap wasn’t closed all the way, which happened to be my problem, but the light is still on, and I’m hoping that I didn’t cause something worse.

With a few weeks left before classes start, most of my friends decided to go home for a few weeks, to spend a bit of time with friends and family.   I’m not so lucky.  Most everyone I know is in Ames, and they’re getting ready for classes starting next week, so visiting might not be the best idea at the time, although I might, I haven't fully decided yet. However, with the car issue, this seems less and less like a possibility, since I don’t want to be driving my car that distance with a potential engine failure.  So this leaves me all alone here, waiting for my friends to come back, and basically just being here, doing nothing, except going out to buy things my apartment needs.

At the moment, the only major thing left for my is a dining table.  However, I never knew how expensive these could be.  For a 4-person table, everything I’ve seen is over $250.  There is one exception: an extendable 4-6 person table for $170 at IKEA.  The downside: it’s white.  However, I’m pressed for money, so  I think I don’t have much of a choice.  And I can always put something on top to make it look nicer (tablecloth, placemats, etc.)

So, the whole thing from this is that, although life seems to be throwing everything it’s got towards me, I’m still persevering.  I’ve still got a few weeks to get things to a manageable level, and I’ve still got IM and other forms of communication to talk to my friends.  Hey, maybe I’ll actually try cooking something just to pass the time…

I love this Doctor

Q: Doctor, I've heard that cardiovascular exercise can prolong life. Is this true?

A: Your heart is only good for so many beats, and that's it... don't waste them on exercise. Everything wears out eventually. Speeding up your heart will not make you live longer; that's like saying you can extend the life of your car by driving it faster. Want to live longer? Take a nap.

Q: Should I cut down on meat and eat more fruits and vegetables?

A: You must grasp logistical efficiencies. What does a cow eat? Hay and corn. And what are these? Vegetables. So a steak is nothing more than an efficient mechanism of delivering vegetables to your system. Need grain? Eat chicken. Beef is also a good source of field grass (green leafy vegetable). And a pork chop can give you 100% of your recommended daily allowance of vegetable products.

Q: Should I reduce my alcohol intake?

A: No, not at all. Wine is made from fruit. Brandy is distilled wine, that means they take the water out of the fruity bit so you get even more of the goodness that way. Beer is also made out of grain. Bottoms up!

Q: How can I calculate my body/fat ratio?

A: Well, if you have a body and you have fat, your ratio is one to one. If you have two bodies, your ratio is two to one, etc.

Q: What are some of the advantages of participating in a regular exercise program?

A: Can't think of a single one, sorry. My philosophy is: No Pain...Good!

Q: Aren't fried foods bad for you?

A: YOU'RE NOT LISTENING!!! ..... Foods are fried these days in vegetable oil. In fact, they're permeated in it. How could getting more vegetables be bad for you?

Q: Will sit-ups help prevent me from getting a little soft around the middle?

A: Definitely not! When you exercise a muscle, it gets bigger. You should only be doing sit-ups if you want a bigger stomach.

Q: Is chocolate bad for me?

A: Are you crazy? HELLO Cocoa beans ! Another vegetable!!! It's the best feel-good food around!

Q: Is swimming good for your figure?

A: If swimming is good for your figure, explain whales to me.

Q: Is getting in-shape important for my lifestyle?

A: Hey! 'Round' is a shape!

Well, I hope this has cleared up any misconceptions you may have had about food and diets.

And remember:

'Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways - Chardonnay in one hand - chocolate in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming 'WOO HOO, What a Ride' AND.....

For those of you who watch what you eat, here's the final word on nutrition and health. It's a relief to know the truth after all those conflicting nutritional studies.

1. The Japanese eat very little fat

and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.

2. The Mexicans eat a lot of fat

and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans..

3. The Chinese drink very little red wine

and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.

4. The Italians drink a lot of red wine

and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.

5. The Germans drink a lot of beers and eat lots of sausages and fats and suffer fewer heart attacks than Americans.

CONCLUSION

Eat and drink what you like.

Speaking English is apparently what kills you.

Friends

So, what I've found when I go to a new place is that one of the biggest impression that stays with me when I leave is the friends I made when at that place. It doesn't matter if it's only for a year, or for a lifetime. When I changed schools my senior year, for example, the people I met there made me feel really welcome and accepted, and it really made what could have been a nightmare into a really memorable and fun experience.

More recently, going to Iowa State University meant not only changing the place I lived, but also living in a completely different culture than what I was used to. However, once again, the friends I made are some of the best friends I've ever had, because they made me feel like I belonged, and that I was someone in their lives that mattered.

However, until today, it didn't really dawn on me how much making friends means to me. Growing up, I went to school at Roosevelt Roads Naval Station (currently closed). Because I was the son of civilians who worked for the Navy, I stayed in the same school (until they closed the base my Junior year of high school). However, most of the people I went to school with were military kids, meaning they usually left every three years. This, and the fact that I was a kinda shy person and not really that good with people (me in middle/high school = definitely not popular) meant that I really didn't have many friends. Sure, I hung out with lots of people, mainly gamers (from Pokemon to Age of Empires), but I never had a friend who I could share moments with, a person who I could connect with at a deeper level. And sure, I had my family, but being exposed to an American culture separated us from truly becoming close, whereas my parents, well, they're my parents. In fact, I'm pretty sure the best friend I had while growing up was my sister. However, in a way, that didn't feel like what I wanted, or like it was cheating in a sense. It wasn't someone I could share things with at a deeper level.

In a way, this is something I've always craved. One of my biggest fears when I went to Iowa State was not being able to make true friends, people I could talk about problems I was having at the time, or to confide secrets to, while also being able to have a good time. This fear is what drove me to join the Social Team at St. Thomas Catholic Church, and to go to retreats: places where I knew I would at least meet a lot of people, raising the chances of meeting people who I could connect with at a deeper level than just "hanging out".

It is sort of ironic, then, that the way I met my girlfriend was not through my over-involvement of extracurricular activities, but rather through a mutual friend. With Kristin, I've been able to find someone who I can connect with at a much deeper level than I've ever been able to do so before. In a way, it's kind of intoxicating.

However, at the same time, I know that having that sort of connection with only one person can be smothering to both parties. Thus, I'm glad that I was able to make such really great friends that I did at Iowa State. I might not connect with them at the level I connect with Kristin, but it's still more of a friendship than I got from all my years in high school.

Now, at a completely different University in a different state, I again came to face with my fear of being alone, with no friends to be able to confide things with. The first week here, although busy, was also one filled with self-doubt and fear. Would I be able to make friends again at the level I did with my friends at Iowa State? However, I've met many people in the past few weeks, and from all those people, a few have surfaced that seem to be going in the direction of the type of friend that I always seem to long for. I just hope that this does, in fact, turn out to be the case.

So anyway, I want to say thank you to all my friends who've been there with me through good and bad times. I want to thank Kristin for loving me so much and putting up with my incessant annoyances. And I want to thank my new friends at University of Michigan for giving me the opportunity to build a relationship beyond that of just hanging out (even if that is so far more or less what we've done, but the potential is there, and that's what I thank you for. It is still pretty early on). Hopefully, once the summer is over, and we go on to our respective fields of study to slave away as indentured servants of academia (just kidding), we can still find the time to get together and share with each other. And to everyone who has been there for me, or will be there for me in the future, know that, if you need it, I will be there for you as well.